Paste a message from a co-parent, coworker, family member, or anyone else. SteadyReply helps you understand what's really being said, draft a calm, factual response in your own voice, and keep an organized record of the conversation.
“You ALWAYS do this. I've covered every cost for soccer while you do nothing. Pay me back the $240 by Friday or I'm calling my lawyer — the kids notice who actually shows up.”
I'm glad the kids are enjoying soccer. I'm happy to review documented, pre-agreed expenses — please send the receipt and the amount, and I'll take care of my share this week.
You only have to answer the request. You don't have to answer the tone.
Drop in the full message, or import screenshots of the thread straight from your phone — blame, threats, guilt and all. It stays private to you and never sends on its own.
SteadyReply separates the actual ask from the noise, and flags pressure tactics and any explicit threats.
Get drafts in your own voice — Natural, Firm, Concise or Boundary. Edit, copy, and save an organized record.
Sometimes the question isn’t “what do I say?” — it’s “how do I handle this?” Describe the situation, or import screenshots of the thread, and get a brief that reads like a good advisor: what this is really about, your move, and the one question worth sitting with.
Separate emotion from action. Tell it what’s happening — or let it read the thread from your screenshots.
The headline read: what this is really about, what matters to each side, and the blind spot you might be missing.
Your move, in order — plus the traps to avoid and a gut-check question that keeps you honest.
One tap turns the plan into calm drafts in your voice. You decide what sends.
The firing. The raise ask. The boundary you’ve been putting off. Perspective tells you what’s true — SteadyMethod gets you ready: build the plan, then practice against a realistic stand-in for the actual person before it counts.
Your objective, your opening line word for word, their likely reactions with your response ready for each, the mistakes to avoid, and your exit.
SteadyReply plays them — the way they actually communicate, from what it remembers. Realistic, never abusive, and nothing is ever sent.
If one of your moves would backfire in the real conversation, you’ll see it flagged — with a better version, word for word.
Everything you need to stay steady — and protected.
Cuts through accusations and emotional bait to name the one thing that actually needs a response — and flags threats and pressure on the way.
Four tones, tuned per person. Edit anything, copy when it's right — nothing ever sends unless you send it.
Every reply becomes an organized, timestamped record you can export as a PDF for a family-law attorney — encrypted so not even we can read it.
Also built in: Perspective before you react · rehearsal with live coaching · a separate space for every relationship
Every saved reply builds an organized, dated record. When you need it, export a clean PDF — timestamped, with every revision preserved.
For people who have hard conversations for a living · $429/year or $49 monthly
Cancel any time, one click, no reason needed — we'll email a receipt, a reminder before each renewal, and a confirmation the moment you cancel.
License your whole team — per-seat or site license, with admin and onboarding.
Contact salesSteadyReply helps you respond calmly and keep records — but it isn't a lawyer or a crisis service, and it never pretends to be. When a message crosses a line, we point you straight to real, confidential help like the National Domestic Violence Hotline and the 988 Lifeline. If you're ever in immediate danger, call 911.
SteadyReply is coming to the App Store shortly.